what products do you offer?

Individual Therapy, EMDR, DBT, TF-CBT

what is your business address?

302 Campusview Dr Ste 201, Columbia, MO 65201, US

what payments do you accept?

Cash, credit card, health savings account - We are "out of network" with insurance providers but can provide a superbill you can use to try to get reimbursed for part of your expense.

What do you know about my business?

Aspire Counseling offers individual counseling for preteens, teenagers & adults through retirement. Our therapists specialize in trauma therapy, anxiety treatment, Dialectical Behavior Therapy & grief counseling. We are LGBTQ+ affirming and work with clients of diverse gender, sexual orientation, culture, race & life experiences.

Do you accept reservations/appointments?

All counseling & therapy sessions are by appointment only.

How many employees work with your company?

We currently have 7 therapists at Aspire Counseling

What is Unique about your business?

We focus on providing high quality evidence based mental health services, because we believe you deserve counseling services that work so you can live life in a way that feels authentic to who you are as an individual.

What holidays are you opened for?

Each therapist decides their own hours and decides which days they will work. Therefore, while some therapists may see clients some holidays others may choose not to.

What insurance do you accept?

We are out of network for all health insurance plans but can provide a superbill upon request.

Are you taking new patients?

Yes! We have limited openings with some therapists right now. Please call our client care team at 573-328-2288 to find out if we have an opening with a therapist who might be a match for you.

Do you see patients on weekends?

We have very limited openings on weekends.

Is there a unisex restroom?

Unfortunately, there are only "male" and "female" bathrooms in our building. That said, we support you using whichever restroom you are most comfortable using.

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Do you have any Deal/Coupons/Offers available?

We offer a very limited number of sliding scale appointment slots.

Do you have a wheelchair accessible restroom?

Our restroom is considered wheelchair accessible but does not have a push button to make opening the door easier.

Is your establishment kid-friendly?

While our business was originally designed to see kids 10 and older we now see a limited number of younger children, particularly if the main concern is anxiety or trauma.

Is your business pet friendly?

Generally no. However, clients have brought their pets in rare situations when it's relevant to the work being done in counseling sessions. We do have a dog that visits the office about once a week and of course welcome all service animals.

Do you offer free wi-fi?

We do not currently offer wi-fi for visitors.

Tips to Handling Anxiety with Fireworks During the Fourth of July

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The Fourth of July is a day of celebration, filled with festivities, family gatherings, and, of course, fireworks. For many, these bright displays in the sky are a highlight of the holiday. However, for some individuals, the loud noises and sudden flashes of fireworks can trigger significant anxiety and distress. Understanding how to manage these reactions and enjoy the holiday in a way that feels safe and comfortable is crucial. This blog post will explore the anxiety that can accompany fireworks and provide practical strategies to help mitigate these triggers.

Understanding Anxiety and Triggers

Anxiety is a common emotional response that can range from mild unease to intense fear. For some, specific events or situations can act as triggers, causing a spike in anxiety levels. Fireworks, with their sudden loud noises and bright flashes, are a common trigger for many individuals, particularly those with conditions such as PTSD, sensory processing disorders, or certain phobias. Understanding the nature of anxiety and how it can manifest in response to triggers like fireworks is the first step in managing it.

Common Symptoms of Anxiety

Anxiety can manifest in various ways, each impacting an individual’s ability to enjoy holidays like the Fourth of July. Physical symptoms often include a rapid heartbeat, excessive sweating, trembling, shortness of breath, and gastrointestinal distress, which can make one feel physically unwell and exacerbate feelings of unease. Emotionally, individuals might experience intense feelings of fear, panic, or dread, accompanied by a pervasive sense of being overwhelmed. These emotions can lead to a sense of helplessness and an inability to enjoy activities that are supposed to be fun and relaxing. On a cognitive level, anxiety can cause difficulty concentrating, racing thoughts, and intrusive memories or thoughts, which can dominate the mind and make it hard to focus on the present moment or engage in conversations and activities. Behaviorally, anxiety often leads to avoidance of situations that trigger these uncomfortable feelings and symptoms, withdrawal from social interactions, and increased agitation. This can result in isolation and a feeling of being disconnected from these festivities and from loved ones. Together, these symptoms create a challenging environment for those affected, making it essential to find effective strategies to manage and mitigate these reactions, ensuring that the holiday can be enjoyed in a way that feels safe and comfortable.

Strategies for Managing Firework-Related Anxiety

There are several strategies that individuals can use to manage anxiety triggered by fireworks. These approaches can help create a more comfortable and enjoyable experience during the Fourth of July celebrations.

Watching Fireworks on TV

One of the simplest ways to enjoy fireworks without the anxiety-inducing noise and flashes is to watch them on TV. Many networks broadcast firework displays from various locations, providing stunning visuals without the overwhelming sound.

Control Over Volume: Watching fireworks on TV allows you to control the volume, reducing the impact of loud noises.

Safe Environment: You can enjoy the display from the comfort of your home, where you feel safe and secure.

Flexibility: You can pause, rewind, or fast-forward through the display, giving you control over your viewing experience

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Using Headphones or Earplugs

For those who want to experience live fireworks but are sensitive to noise, using headphones or earplugs can be highly effective.

Noise Reduction: High quality noise-canceling headphones can significantly reduce the sound of fireworks, making it more bearable.
Customized Experience: You can listen to calming music or white noise through your headphones, providing a soothing background to the visual display.
Portable Solution: Headphones and earplugs are portable and easy to carry, making them convenient for attending public fireworks displays.

Creating a Quiet Space

Creating a quiet space is essential if you’re attending a fireworks display and want to manage anxiety effectively. It’s important to ensure you have access to a tranquil area where you can retreat if the noise becomes overwhelming. Many public events thoughtfully provide designated quiet areas or first aid tents, offering a respite from the commotion where you can take a break. To make your personal retreat even more comforting, consider bringing items that provide solace and relaxation, such as a soft blanket, a favorite book, or calming essential oils. These items can help create a sanctuary within the larger event, giving you a sense of control and peace amidst the festivities. Additionally, it’s crucial to familiarize yourself with the layout of the vent beforehand and plan your exit strategy. Knowing the quickest and easiest routes to leave the venue can provide a reassuring safety net, ensuring that you can depart swiftly and without added stress if the need arises. By preparing in this way, you can better manage your environment and enjoy the celebration in a way that feels safe and accommodating to your needs.

Engaging in Calming Activities

Engaging in activities that you find calling and soothing can be a highly effective way to manage anxiety during fireworks displays. Practicing mindfulness and meditation techniques can help you stay grounded and focused on the present moment, reducing the impact of external stressors. These practices encourage a state of relaxation and mental clarity, allowing you to observe the fireworks without becoming overwhelmed by them. Deep breathing exercises are another powerful tool, as they can calm your nervous system and reduce anxiety symptoms. By taking slow, deliberate breaths, you can lower your heart rate and promote a sense of calm, making it easier to cope with the loud noises and bright flashes of fireworks. Additionally, incorporating gentle physical activities such as walking or stretching can help alleviate tension and anxiety. Physical movement can release built-up stress in your body and provide a healthy distraction from anxiety-inducing stimuli. Combining these calming activities creates a holistic approach to managing anxiety, ensuring you have multiple strategies to draw upon during stressful moments.By integrating mindfulness, deep breathing, and physical activity into your routine, you can enhance your resilience and enjoy the holiday in a more relaxed and comfortable state.

Seeking Support

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Seeking support is crucial if you find fireworks particularly triggering. Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or mental health professionals to help you navigate this challenging time. Start by communicating your needs clearly to those around you. Let them know how fireworks affect you and what specific actions they can take to help you feel safe and comfortable. This might include creating a quiet space, adjusting plans, or simply being present as a calming influence. Implementing a buddy system can also be incredibly helpful. Attending events with a trusted friend or family member who understands your triggers and can provide immediate support can make a significant difference. This person can help you stay grounded, assist with managing anxiety in the moment, and ensure you have someone to turn to if things become overwhelming. If your anxiety is particularly severe, seeking professional help can be a great decision. Speaking with a mental health professional can provide you with tailored strategies and support. Therapists can help you develop coping mechanisms specific to your anxiety triggers, offer ongoing support, and work with you to create a comprehensive plan to manage your anxiety.

Mental Health Support in Missouri

If you find fireworks particularly triggering and need additional support, Aspire Counseling is here to help. Our compassionate and experienced therapists understand the challenges of anxiety and can provide personalized strategies and support to help you manage triggers. We offer in person counseling at our Lee’s Summit MO location, and Columbia MO location along with providing online therapy to anyone in the state of Missouri. Along with working with adults, our therapists work with teens and college students experiencing trauma, anxiety, OCD, grief, depression and much more. Contact us today to schedule a session and take the first step toward a more comfortable and enjoyable Fourth of July celebration.